“Be The Woman You Desire To See In Your Future Husband”

Hello Ladies welcome back, & hello to you if this is your first time reading my blog. I’m so overwhelmed by the encouragement and support I’ve been getting from the start of this blog. I just wanted to say thank you, thank you, thank you. By God’s grace I’m able to share what I’ve been through and what God has shown me in my “Wait Season” so I have been where you currently are. 
So what I want to talk about this week is becoming the woman you desire to see in your future husband. What do I mean? I’m glad you asked. When I was single and I was visiting my mom in New York, we would have these talks. She told me something I’ll never forget. She said, “Shaleena if you want a better man, become a better woman” at first I said to myself that doesn’t make any sense. A man should take me as I am. That was my worldy mindset that I had to quickly get rid of. So I thought to myself, ok what do I want in my husband. All the things I wanted in him, I needed to be doing or striving to do for myself. Example If you don’t desire your husband to be a clubber, drinker, or smoker. Then maybe you should work on those things for yourself. If you desire him to be a go getter. What dreams are you trying to aspire? If you desire him to be honest, trustworthy, and faithful. When you become one with your mate you are a reflection of him. So what is your reflection saying ? Can you honestly say that you uphold these qualities? Hmmm good one right? I know it was good to me when God first showed me. The thing is that we attract who we are. The scripture says, 

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”-Matthew‬ ‭6:33‬ ‭KJV‬

This scripture is so powerful, seek the kingdom of God and all his righteousness. What does this mean to me? We first must understand how the kingdom of God operates and its the complete opposite of how this world operates. We must attain the qualities of God’s kingdom. Which is all of his characteristics. Then the scripture goes on to say and all these things shall be added unto you. What are these thing? Your desires! All the things you desire within to have, will come to you. “You attract what you become”. Yes 🙌 that is so good!!!  
You was wondering, what can I do while I’m waiting for my husband. Here’s your answer become a better wife, because a wife is who you are not what you will be. The scripture says,

“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.”-Proverbs‬ ‭18:22‬ ‭NIV‬‬

It doesn’t say he who finds a woman and turns her into a wife. He who finds a wife. Ladies you are not only wifey material. You are a wife, so start walking in it. There are always areas in our lives that God wants us to grow in. He always shows us those areas in love because he truly desires the best for his daughters. Once I got this revelation I stepped into my role hunny lol. I started cooking and cleaning, working out. Putting my self on a schedule, learning about time management etc. I even went so far as talking to my husband as if he was already there. I was like what you want for dinner hunny, while my furniture starred back at me. I had to believe that thing. The devil will try to make you believe that you’ll never be married and you will be lonely for the rest of your life. For one your never alone because Jesus is with in you and he left his comforter, which is the Holy Spirit. Don’t believe the lies of the enemy. The scripture says he is the father of lies. Rebuke and cast down those thoughts don’t let him just speak anything to your spirit. Kick him out your mind and start Walk in it ladies. 💕

If you want your “Boaz” you have to become a “Ruth”


 Satisfied In Singleness

Hello ladies I know it’s been a while since my last post. Sorry about that 😏, But today I want to talk about being satisfied in your singleness. Ok First off let me start out with asking you. How is your relationship with God? How is your intimacy with him? If your not sure or if you feel it can be better. Thank you for being honest.

 The thing is that your relationship with God is TRULY a real life relationship just as much as you talk to him he wants and desires to talk to you. The thing is that the more you desire a husband shows there is a greater void in your heart. Your looking for love and the kind of love your looking for trust me “NO” man can fill. Only Jesus can do that. It’s so vital for you to build that strong relationship with your savior because he will literally save you from the wrong man! Ok? God loves you with a love so deep that your natural mind will never be able to comprehend.The thing is he wants to show you how much he loves you. But we have to let him in. He desires your worship and your love. Do you know that pleases him? Do you know that our worship moves him more than the worship of a 1,000 angels. Mankind moves God in a way nothing above or beneath can. That’s how deep he is in love with us. Once you begin to love on him, get to know him, study him, learn about him the more you will be satisfied with your singleness. What stuck with me when I was single a married woman said enjoy this alone time with Jesus because you’ll never get it back once your married with children. Boy was she right I can’t begin to tell you how I miss those memories with Jesus. I still spend time with him but now my time is divided. Take this time to truly get to know your master and let him pour out his love on you like a warm blanket draped over you on a cold night. ♥️

Then you will become completely satisfied and in love with your singleness. You’ll be having so much fun you’ll look up and God has presented you your husband and you didn’t even see it coming. Remember the phrase “Time flies when your having fun” yes he’ll be right there. You may even say hold up now, I’m not sure if I’m ready to interrupt this love affair I have going on with Jesus. lol Desire him more than you desire a man. Be satisfied with your singleness in Jesus, he is jealous for you. Don’t rush your 1st love to hurry and get with your 2nd Love. Be satisfied in your relationship with Jesus Christ because he will never leave you, harm you or break your heart💕

  “‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭33:3‬ ‭NIV